THIS IS WHAT MATTERS - NOT WHAT THE OLD PARADIGM NARCISSISTS INDOCTRINATE YOU WITH. BE FREE, FIND YOUR TRUE SELF; BE SPONTANEOUS; LAUGH. LAUGH UNTIL YOUR SIDES HURT AND SET THE CHILDREN FREE.

One big problem today is that many narcissists sit in places of power and their worst nightmare is to look within or for others to look within them. It is EMPTY inside of them and they are therefore focused on compensating the outside with extreme blingbling. These people will do anything to keep the power and are FULL of fears and inadequacies. Most people are afraid but their true selves are intact, although hidden. But these people ARE REALLY empty inside. There is nothing to fix. We can just stop more people from becoming like this (extreme childhood wounding) and also see through their manipulations. 

Unfortunately these people make it to the top FAR more often, as other’s stand no chance when they undermine, manipulate and control. They are ready to do ANYTHING for power, which ordinary people are not. These people are not Leaders, they are Self-Serving Predators (even if they can be quite smart and show a very “friendly” face when needed). When people act from their heart/from a loving place/higher self, these people get extremely triggered, because of their complexes and they will systematically try to suppress and sabotage these “bright” people. Only people who are more like them (power and control issues) or extreme codependents will be allowed to advance or have the spotlight.

These self-absorbed, old paradigm people can spot a “bright” person from miles away and will do anything to sabotage them. They have no chance. This is a vicious circle where the losers become winners in this society and the “real” people get pushed aside, hurt or are used. 

With the real people I don’t mean those who have pushed away their dark side, but integrated, balanced, full of good stuff people. Empathic. Real. Genuine. Trustworthy when it all comes down to it. 

Unfortunately a LARGE percentage of spiritual gurus are like this as well (and that’s why it’s better to always THINK FOR YOURSELF in the end). They like the power trip and want people to do as they say, not to find their own way. That is why I don’t beleive in people who create “programmes”, as everyone must find their own unique way. You can be a pathfinder or guide, but that’s it. Controlling people want followers and dependants and they do not want you to think for yourself. Because this means they cant control you! They want to control your feelings, wellbeing, actions, knowledge, yes everything. This is not FREEDOM.

TRUE LEADERS CAN BE HUMBLE AND OPEN: THEY LISTEN AND CAN BE PUPILS TOO.

I have come to realize that these predators are a larger problem than I’ve wanted to see (I always want to believe the best, but this can also prevent one from the truth…). This has led our planet to its current state, where nature, animals, children and our very earth consistently are maltreated. We have let these people rule us and their lack of empathy is apparent. It’s all about money, power and image. Even when it comes to charity, it can be a way to polish your image, rather than a heartfelt thing (and make no mistake – this intention imprints itself on the matrix). These imprints bring more and more disharmony to the original matrix. They can TALK all they want about peace, but what’s INSIDE? I once knew a man who was a strong advocate for women’s rights and to be honest, he had enormous hidden hostility towards women, stemming from his childhood. So no matter his external actions, the vibration and frequencies he sent out were not beneficial or loving at all.  

It is important to look at own inner patterns but also to learn not to give power or to believe the lies. They will minimize, forget, silence, misplace, make invisible, sabotage, dampen, destroy, control everything that is full, as they are so empty. Sadly enough, this means that they ESPECIALLY want to crush the FULLEST people. I think we have lost many loving leaders like this (does Jesus ring a bell These people strangely meet with MURDEROUS rage and are often assasinated, while creeps such as Hitler always manage to survive better!!! 

I’ve just had it with this paradigm. Most of the people I’ve known who were very narcissistic and self-absorbed, ended up either in media/entertainment, corporate managment or politics/human rights. Talk about having the wrong role models for our children…

Don’t let them do it again people. They are just full of envy and rage for all the things you have and they can never have. Love, empathy, meaningfulness and connection. Dear friends, stand up and shine with all your might! BE GREAT, BE BRIGHT, GROW INTO THE SKY. And do not listen to these messages. They DID get your email, they DID find you interesting, you DID leave an impression. Even sometimes too much so. Don’t be small and fearful like them – OUTSHINE them even when they try to stop you. This is part of making the new paradigm shift and detach from these sorry predators with nothing but fear and control hunger in their hearts. Look for the leaders that inspire and that let others shine too! 

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Diagnostic Criteria

 A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

- has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)

- is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

- believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)

- requires excessive admiration

- has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations

- is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends

- lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others

- is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her

- shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

I AM KRISTINA AND I NO LONGER BELEIVE THAT A WITHOLDING SERIOUS EXPRESSION IS A SIGN OF TRUE POWER!!